When Things Go Awry: Finding Joy in Wedding Day Imperfections
Weddings are meant to be magical, but let’s be honest—sometimes things don’t go quite as planned. The flowers may be late, the weather might surprise you, or like one couple I recently worked with, you might arrive in town with nowhere to get ready.
They were scheduled to get married that very afternoon, but their lodging wasn’t ready, and understandably, panic started to creep in. But instead of letting stress take over, we improvised—and that’s where the magic really happened.
I opened my home to them. She took the larger guest room, he the smaller. I poured her a glass of bubbly to calm the nerves, and suddenly, what could have been a disaster turned into a memorable, heartfelt part of their day. They laughed, got ready, and arrived at the venue looking relaxed, happy, and absolutely glowing.
The takeaway? Don’t let unexpected bumps steal your joy. Stay flexible, lean on your people (and your professionals!), take a few deep breaths—and if needed, sip a little bubbly.
You’ll not only survive the hiccups—you might just look back and laugh at them.
Because in the end, it’s not about perfect plans—it’s about marrying the one you love and enjoying the day you’ve dreamed of.
